Today is Night #5 since I started my "tough love" bedtime routine and it is working like a charm. I found these tips on Parents.com and tips 2,3,4, and especially 6 are definitely worth using at bedtime. Routine, Routine is so critical. Both kids are sound asleep at 10:00 each night, woo hoo!
For my little one, allowing her to cry and soothe herself back to sleep was definitely key in our new routine.